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Danielle:
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I
have experimented with phone sex with my boyfriend and
even cybersex, by typing sexy words on the computer screen. But
phone
sex has grown stale and typing sexy words gets a little played out
after 40 or 50 times. Has anyone thought of any ways to make
technology a more fun and practical form of sexual expression.
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ASE:
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Danielle, I
think you are going to be very pleased with what
technology has in store for you. Now through the miracle of modern
technology, you can hook up mechanisms to your computer that can
simulate many different sexual sensations for your pleasure.
Researchers are working on a special bodysuit that has about 40
sensors embedded in it. With this suit you can have fun and safe
virtual sex with someone on the other side of the world. And you can
actually feel it on your skin. The sensors are built inside the body
suit and each participant can send sensations of heat, buzzing,
tickling and even feather-like sensation to the recipient. Vivid is
in the process of creating these types of suits and speculate that the
suit will be available in the low thousands. It will be very similar
to the suits used by astronaut, except they will be embedded with
numerous sensors.
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Pamela:
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I still feel
really awkward after pleasuring myself. Can you
recommend any remedies for my mental well being?
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ASE:
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Your feelings of
uneasiness are not all uncommon. The taboo
views of masturbation didn’t begin to alter until the late 1940s and
early 1950s when the Kinsey reports on male and female sexuality
stated that, according to their studies, 94% of American men and 40%
of American Women masturbated to orgasm. More recent research
indicates that the figure for males remains the same, while the
figure
for women is considerably higher, though still less than men.
The Kinsey Report
also concluded that anxiety and guilt were
common side-effects of masturbation in those who practiced it.
Masturbation is now see as a way of self healing. Its become a
valuable way for men and women to learn more about their bodies, and
pleasure themselves regardless of their relationship status.
These days
masturbation is one of the basic tools used in sex
therapy, and clients are encouraged to masturbate in the privacy of
their own homes as a key method of discovering their sexual and
orgasmic responses and overcoming their anxieties, guilt or other
problems surrounding sexual concerns.
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Unknown:
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Isn’t
masturbation –masturbation? How can you assume a
position of authority on this topic?
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ASE:
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Thank you for your
inquiry. You are somewhat correct, in that
self pleasuring has been ongoing since the dawning of mankind.
However, masturbation is often carried out in a speedy and rather
non-
sensual fashion, with the aim of achieving climax in the fastest way
possible by focusing the manual stimulation solely on the genital
organs. The purpose of this dissertation, is to turn your experience
into an art of self pleasuring, you should learn to feel at ease
with
yourself, so that it can become a way of making love to yourself in
a
wholly sensual way.
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Denise:
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Why are sex toys
becoming so popular all of a sudden?
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ASE:
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Sex toys or sexual
aids, have been used to for sexual enhancement
for thousands of years. Love eggs have been known in China since
ancient times. These were small oval or circular objects, often of
wood or china, which would be inserted into the vagina to produce
arousing sensations as the woman walked around.
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Laura:
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I am concerned
that my partner would feel slighted if I were to
include my vibrator into our encounter.
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ASE:
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Try to keep your
partner optimistic, by assuring him that you
both will achieve increased sexual sensations and higher heights of
orgasmic ecstasy. For some women, sexual aids may be the only way
that
they can achieve sexual release and therefore have a vital part to
play in lovemaking. A vibrator can be used to discover which parts
of
the body are erotically sensitive: not only the most obviously
erogenous zones, such as breasts, vagina, and clitoris, but other
areas such as the thighs, stomach and arms.
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